tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post9018355470479199064..comments2023-04-26T09:37:49.001-04:00Comments on Our Lives Forever Changed: THE POWER OF THE SUBCONSCIOUSSusanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14814373587860281157noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-33114696806970200432010-02-21T12:26:52.876-05:002010-02-21T12:26:52.876-05:00Thanks for sharing! I'm new to this "clu...Thanks for sharing! I'm new to this "club" and appreciate all the women out there that are sharing their experiences as it helps me make more sense of mine.<br /><br />And congrats on your pregnancy! My husband and I aren't ready to try again yet, but I look forward w/ hope to when we are.Big Love, Big Acceptance - or so I sayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03647121831668711451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-71983845361947615422010-02-20T09:23:49.502-05:002010-02-20T09:23:49.502-05:00Loosing a baby brings out sides of ourselves that ...Loosing a baby brings out sides of ourselves that we don't necessarily like...jealousy, rage, anger, frustration because those people have all of their babies and you are still missing one or more of your own. *hugs*<br /><br />Don't beat yourself up...we all go through this and maybe always will. Thinking of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-74581443245268172452010-02-19T02:12:49.575-05:002010-02-19T02:12:49.575-05:00This is so understandable Susan. They are your go...This is so understandable Susan. They are your good friends, they must know how you've suffered. I'm sure they wouldn't begrudge you "forgetting" their pregnancy after all you've lived through. Sending you hugsmargarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16494588299838654564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-56859597805055225422010-02-18T23:05:44.510-05:002010-02-18T23:05:44.510-05:00Do not feel bad! You went through such a traumati...Do not feel bad! You went through such a traumatic event and had to take care of yourself. If there is any time in life that you should be selfish, it is when you lose a baby. Be gentle with yourself! ((HUGS))Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02695243793883254621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-28506690542477781922010-02-18T22:34:05.178-05:002010-02-18T22:34:05.178-05:00I also feel exactly the same way. I've learned...I also feel exactly the same way. I've learned that some of my best ways to deal with other people's good news is to simply deny it. I know it's not healthy and I know you cannot, but I can pretend to at least and I can bury it deep, deep down...like it's not even happening. Then I realize it really is and then the anger and jealous feelings all come out all over again. What a crazy ride.<br />((hugs))Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13339073098081631983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-90108077904656604662010-02-18T22:21:10.883-05:002010-02-18T22:21:10.883-05:00Dont beat yourself up over it, it may just be the ...Dont beat yourself up over it, it may just be the way your being protected from all those feelings.<br /><br />I too feel the SAME EXACT WAY about friends that are expecting and also find myself forgetting until something reminds me. I just look at it as it's Nolan's way of protecting me form the hurt.<br /><br />Crazy sounding I know, but I know my friends understand so I try not to dwell on it. Although, I DO feel bad, because all I want to feel is 'happy' for them, but that feeling is nowhere in sight. In time I guess it will come back.<br /><br />((hugs))Ashley Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02156590541468931197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8647730545372700763.post-4841781269656308622010-02-18T21:32:30.580-05:002010-02-18T21:32:30.580-05:00I get this. I have had similar experiences with s...I get this. I have had similar experiences with so many friends. Even knowing that we might be pregnant ourselves in April doesn't change the jealousy I feel for my friends who have all of their children.Heatherhttp://www.heathermohr.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com